Design Style Confusion? Here’s How to Find the One That Feels Like You

How to Find Your Interior Design Style

Some people just know their interior design style. They can walk into a store, instantly spot what fits, and create a home that feels effortlessly “them.”

And then there are the rest of us.

Maybe you love the warmth of a traditional home and the clean lines of a modern space. Maybe you’ve pinned everything from boho maximalism to minimalist neutrals and now your home is a mismatched mix of styles that don’t quite feel right. Or maybe you’ve played it safe, choosing “nice” pieces that don’t spark much excitement, because committing to a style feels overwhelming.

Here’s the good news: Your personal style isn’t about following a strict set of design rules. It’s about creating a space that genuinely feels like home to you. Whether you have a natural eye for design or you’ve never given it much thought, here’s how to uncover the style that truly fits.

Start With How You Want to Feel in Your Space

Forget about design trends and Pinterest-worthy aesthetics for a moment—how do you want to feel when you walk into your home?

• Cozy and grounded?
• Light and airy?
• Energized and creative?
• Classic and timeless?

Your home should support your lifestyle, not just look good in photos. If you love the feeling of a calm, uncluttered space, you might gravitate toward neutral colors, soft textures, and minimal decor. If warmth and nostalgia bring you comfort, you might prefer layered fabrics, vintage pieces, and rich tones. Start by identifying the feeling first—this will guide your design decisions more than any trend ever could.

Look at Your Favorite Spaces (and Not Just Homes)

Sometimes, we’re so focused on home interiors that we miss the bigger picture. Think about:

• A restaurant or hotel lobby that made you feel instantly comfortable.
• A vacation rental that you wished you could live in.
• A friend’s home where you always feel at ease.

What do these places have in common? Is it the color palette? The use of natural light? The materials and textures? Pay attention to the details that draw you in—they might be the missing pieces to your own style.

Notice What You Keep Coming Back To

Trends come and go, and your tastes may evolve, but certain things will always feel right to you. When you scroll through home inspiration or walk into a furniture store, what do you always love?

• A particular color scheme?
• A mix of old and new pieces?
• A preference for sleek or ornate details?

Instead of trying to fit into one aesthetic, look for recurring patterns in what you’re drawn to. These are the anchors of your personal style.

Check Your Closet for Clues

You might not realize it, but your wardrobe can reveal a lot about your interior style.

• If you love classic, well-tailored pieces, a timeless, structured interior might be your best fit.
• If you live in neutral basics, you might appreciate a minimalist, understated home.
• If you love bold prints and unique statement pieces, eclectic or vintage-inspired decor might be more your vibe.

The way you dress is often a natural reflection of your taste—your home can follow suit.

Reflect on the Homes That Shaped You

The places we’ve lived—especially during childhood—shape our connection to home in ways we don’t always realize.

• Some people find comfort in recreating elements of the homes they grew up in, whether it’s a cozy kitchen, a specific color palette, or cherished heirloom pieces.
• Others may feel the urge to design something completely different, creating the home they wish they had.

No matter your experience, your past can provide insight into what makes a space feel like home to you. Maybe it’s a sense of warmth and familiarity, or maybe it’s about creating something fresh and entirely your own. Either way, both paths are valid.

Astrology & Your Aesthetic

If you’re struggling to pin down what really feels like you, astrology can offer an unexpected (but incredibly insightful) perspective.

Certain planetary placements in your birth chart can reveal your natural preferences when it comes to color, texture, and overall vibe.

• Your Venus sign speaks to your love of beauty and aesthetics—this placement often reveals the style you’re naturally drawn to.
• Your Rising sign (which represents first impressions and personal expression) can influence how you want your space to feel to both yourself and others.
• Your Sun sign (your core identity) plays a role in whether you thrive in bold, lively environments or more subtle, grounded ones.

For example, someone with Venus in Libra might feel at home in a beautifully balanced space with soft, harmonious colors, while a Scorpio Venus may prefer rich, moody tones and intimate, cozy interiors.

Your chart won’t dictate your style, but it can offer clues that help you piece together what resonates most deeply. If you’re curious about how your astrology influences your personal aesthetic, I put together a guide that breaks it all down for you [here].

Experiment—Without Overcommitting

Sometimes, the only way to know what truly fits is to test it out. You don’t have to overhaul your entire home to experiment with different styles.

• Try new color palettes with throw pillows or artwork.
• Rearrange your furniture to see what feels better.
• Swap out decor pieces before investing in bigger changes.

Give yourself permission to play. The more you experiment, the easier it becomes to recognize what feels right versus what just looks nice.

Trust What Feels Like YOU

At the end of the day, finding your interior design style isn’t about picking a “category” like mid-century modern or farmhouse chic. It’s about creating a space where you feel at home.

Forget trends. Forget what’s “in.” Forget what looks good on Instagram. Focus on what makes you feel comfortable, inspired, and happy in your space. That’s your style—whether it fits into a neat design label or not.

Want a little extra help figuring it out? I created a free guide that walks you through how your astrology can reveal your personal aesthetic—so you can stop second-guessing and start designing a space that feels like you. You can grab it [here].

Now tell me—what’s one thing in your home that already feels 100% like you? Drop it in the comments!